Monday, October 31, 2011

It's Not What You Know, It's Who You Know

One of the social-diseases of our country is Nepotism, and it is very common in both private and government institutions. It is safe to say that when you know of someone, a relative perhaps with a high position in a certain institution and you are aiming to get a job, everything will be as easy as 1, 2, 3. 
Getting a job nowadays especially in the nursing career is as difficult as passing into the hole of a needle. Your license as a nurse is not a guarantee that there's a job ahead of you, even your Masters Degree will not help you. You maybe have the best experience among others or you maybe better than them but still it won't get you there. The only thing that matters now are the influential people behind you, even though you lack the experience to do the job and may even be totally incompetent and unsuitable for it, but if you have the connections, you will surely get the job. 
What will happen to those competent nurses without any connections? How long are they going to suffer from unemployment? How long are they going to prove to those selfish employers/admins/institutions that they are worth to hire? There are a lot of nurses who are victims of this social disease and what's left to them are frustrations. I pity those nurses who doesn't have any backer/connections and I pity myself for being one of them.

Sunday, October 9, 2011

Sing For Life

I love singing, it is my easiest way of expressing my feelings and emotions. Every time I feel bad or whenever I feel broke, I'd just sing and eventually my worries and pain will slowly ease. 
I started singing when I was just a little boy and I used to sing with my mom and dad and also with my siblings. Singing has already been a part of our lives, it is our way of spending quality time together. I really miss those times when we sang together outside our house in the middle of the night and with a bonfire as our light. 
Singing is indeed a talent that must be shared and developed. It is also something that we must be proud and be thankful of. I do not sing just for myself, I sing for the people, for my family, friends and most specially I sing for my GOD. But  there is still one more thing that I'd like to do someday, and that is to sing for my BRIDE. I want to sing to her our love-song while she walks in the isle towards me, and also while we walk together going to the altar and say the words "I DO".

Friday, October 7, 2011

Nightmares in Nursing

    Its been a while when I started working as a Nurse Trainee in a private hospital. As a nurse trainee, I am not receiving anything, not a single centavo from the hospital. Lucky to those professionals who does not belong in the nursing career because from the time that they passed the board exam and got their license, they were able to work immediately with pay. They paid a cheaper tuition fee but look at them now, they are receiving a bigger salary compared to nurses.
    It is a sad reality for us new nurses that we need to suffer first for a couple of months or even years working as volunteers or trainees before we can actually work as staff nurses. We are already licensed but we are not being compensated, we are exploited! We did not study nursing for free, we even had the most expensive tuition fee but look at us now, we are still asking money from our parents and we can't even buy our own needs.
    They are always telling us that the surplus of nurses is the primary reason why we do not have opportunities here. Well, Yes, they maybe right but my point here is that we have plenty of hospitals in our country and as far as I know, if not all, most of our hospitals are under-staff. If we are going to base it on the international standard ratio of nurses to patients which is 1:4, they really lack of staff nurses. Hospitals today are getting wiser, for them to be able to save expenses and fill in the lacking number of nurses they implemented the volunteer/trainee programs. In short, they have been taking advantage to the surplus of nurses without even thinking of our rights.
     When this issue was raised in the Senate and was televised, I was a bit hopeful that somehow there could be better solutions but in the end, I was just disappointed. The solution given primarily focused on reducing or limiting the number of enrollment in every nursing schools. My God! we're talking about surplus and unemployment of nurses, so why give as a damn solution that has nothing to do with our concern? Do you think that when the enrollment decreases the employment for nurses will increase? Come to think of it!
    All nurses are members of the so called PNA (Philippine Nurses Association) and it is so nice to hear that we belong to a certain association that could somehow do something from our concerns and could protect our rights but sad to say they are not doing anything to the existing problems of nurses. All I know is they have been collecting money from us. How many new nurses does our country produced each year? How many existing members would renew their membership? That's a big number for sure, therefore, that is also a big money to them. They must have done something to help unemployed nurses, a program perhaps, but then again there were none.
    The only thing that I will get from being a nurse trainee is the experience; the chance to sharpen my skills, widen my knowledge, work with good people, and also being able to help and give care to the sick people, but other than that, there's nothing else.
   Just recently, the Department of Health stopped the volunteer programs for Nurses in all Government hospitals. Let's just hope and pray that this action would take us somewhere, so that there will be no more exploitation and there will be better compensations for nurses .

Thursday, October 6, 2011

A Man's Promise

I will take care of you,
and live my whole life with you.
I'll wipe the tears of your past,
and give you smile that would last.

To you I'll give my comfort,
With all my heart I'll show my love  and support.
To you I'll put my full attention,
and give you my protection.

I won't do anything that will cause you pain,
'coz you are a treasure that every man should gain.
Forever it may take to be with you,
I'll take forever just to love you.

--Donskie--
September 03, 2008

I Love You

Loving you is all I want to do,
without you my life will turn to blue.
I don't care to what will I go through,
'coz I love you and its true.

I may not be the right man for you,
but believe me, I will love you
more than anyone can do.

I will treasure all the moments while I'm with you,
'coz I don't know when you'll gonna leave me,
and break my heart in two.


--donskie--
December 02, 2008

Wednesday, October 5, 2011

What's With Love?

What's with love that makes you feel happy,
What's with love that pushes you to do things seriously,
What's with love that makes you feel complete,
What's with love that you really need to compete.

But what's with love that makes you feel sad,
when everything turns bad
What's with love that makes you cry a river of tears,
and leave you nothing buts fears.

What's with love that gives you pain,
and put your life in vain
What's with love that in some point you have to let go,
though your heart and mind says no.

--Donskie--
November 25, 2008

Tuesday, October 4, 2011

A Dream of A Lifetime

Chef Nurse! That's what I wanted to be. You might think I misspelled it but I didn't. Yes, I am a Nurse but being a Chief Nurse isn't my dream. I started cooking when I was in my elementary years, maybe I got the skills from always observing my mom and grandma in the kitchen. At first I just copied their recipes until I started putting my own style on it and eventually I started inventing or making my own recipes. I couldn't exactly explain how it feels when I start cooking and especially seeing my family eating my food and receiving good feedback. When I left in our province, one of the things that I looked forward to is going home and cook for my family because I really love to cook and that is also my way of showing my sweetness and love to them. When I graduated in college  and became a Nurse, I know I was able to fulfill my father's dream and now I want to fulfill my dream, and that is to study and get a Diploma in Culinary Arts and become a renowned chef. I know for now its not possible, but I know someday it could be, and it would happen.